e-commerce in apache SSL environment

ok ssl is built for instance.

a cert is generated.

a php program is tailor with shopping cart and data writes into shopping data and logistics are ready, transport, banking...etc.

background [bn] for short.
b1. mysql use port 3306 but I change 43306 port.
b2. SSL (https) use 433 while http use port 80.
b3. SSH uses port 22

how SSL protects mysql while the mysql server is using 43306 and SSL-https is using 433 when user A is in paris shopping in the shopping list of the http server and mysql server is staying in Milan and the bank is in cologue and I am in San Jose CA using SSH????
does SSH use a different cert and encryption? A completely different from https's cert?

What kind of computer that this forums is using , in nite time, I can't send in message into this forum. Is it a single computer to do the whole things, how can they make money out of this forum? I wonder.
enlighten me, please!

>> how SSL protects mysql while the mysql server is using 43306 and SSL-https is using 433

From Apache (with SSL) to mysql is unprotected.

Just like qmail with tls patch. Say my smtp server address is: mail.mydomain.com. When I use a mail client to send a message to someone@hotmail.com, the connection from my location to mail.mydomain.com is then secure. At the stage where mail.mydomain.com negotiating with mail.hotmail.com is unprotected.