qmail + jails... argh

this is a cross qmail/sendmail question, but i can't find a good resource to ask... i have qmail setup and its running perfectly on a separate box, running with smtp-auth... i have another box that has many jails (freebsd), and each jail has apache+mysql... when any of the jails try to send mail, the logs show a save_mail panic... I configured the jail's sendmail like this:

http://lists.freebsd.org/pipermail/freebsd-questions/2003-December/029563.html

how else can I get mail to be sent from these jails, through the qmail server

i set up the submit.mc in the jail to point to the qmail mail server.... installed the new submit.mc.. and restarted the sendmail msp... the errors in the jail are:

Sep 19 15:56:14 shared sendmail[63050]: i8JFuEam063050: Losing ./qfi8JFuEam063050: savemail panic
Sep 19 15:56:14 shared sendmail[63050]: i8JFuEam063050: SYSERR(www): savemail: cannot save rejected email anywhere


I added the ip range of the jail'd boxes that will be sending mail through the qmail box to the qmail box's tcp.smtp like so:
69.XXX.XXX.:allow,RELAYCLIENT=""