Cfschedule

Is there a way to clear all current tasts? I don't remember that I had named them before, as i has been so long, so i was wondering if you could just clear all tasks on the server.

Aside from going into the CF administrator, you'll have to try using the undocumented service factory components (the Java components that underly CF) and try to get a list of the scheduled tasks that way. Try doing some Google searches for ColdFusion and ServiceFactory, but it will probably take some digging. Even then though, this will probably give you ALL the scheduled tasks on the server, even those that aren't yours (if you are on a shared server). Your best bet is definitely to use the CF administrator if you have access to it.

I contacted my host to see if they can do it, I am such a pain to them. However, tonight, I cannot let the task happen.... until it's all resolved, what would happen if I just deleted the file the scheduled task links to..?

It would probably throw an uncaught exception. You could also just delete all the code out of the file and replace it with nothing, or with <cfabort> to just abort processing.