flash form actionscript help PLEASE

i have been through every single tutorial on the internet i think--and i still can't get my flash form to work. im using php to send me the data, but when i fill it out, i never receive anything in my email! i have tried SO many different ways, and i can get none to work. i have read a post, which had a problem like mine, on this board at (URL)--but when i put in the guy's code, it came up with an output box saying Scene=Scene 1, Layer=Buttons, Frame=1: Line 15: Statement must appear within on handler
scriptVars.onLoad = function (){" and so on.

maybe I am not putting the code in at the right place, i have no idea... my form is located here if you want to take a look:
URL
and the actual file in .fla format is here (if you want to look at it)
URL

the code i have in my php file now is :
<?

$to = "maando@hotmail.com";
$msg = "$name\n\n";
$msg .= "$message\n\n";
mail($to, $url, $msg, "From: My web site\nReply-To: $email\n");

?>


and the action code i used in the flash file was the stop() for both frames (frame 1 which was the comment form & for frame 2 which was the thank you part) and then for the submit button i used:


on (release) {
if (name eq "" or message eq "" or email eq "") {
stop ();
} else {
loadVariablesNum ("form.php", 0, "POST");
gotoAndStop (2);
}
}



if someone could PLEASE take a few minutes and help me out, i would really appreciate it. I am new at this, so please try to explain to me & be specific on where to insert things....thanks!!!!!!!!

\\edit: i put the wrong url to the page in but its now fixed

I was just going to say that you should either put the entire URL when using action script.

Most of the time the answer is the most obvious thing.