Iis 5 Mail Troubles

Please help. I have a windows 2003 server with 32 domains on it (each with own ip). In IIS manager under SMTP, I have all the domains as Local (Alias) except for 'nick (local default)'. My server has ip/login/pw that i use to remote desktop connection. When I use outlook, I can’t send or receive email. I really want to have just 1 login/pw that I use in outlook 2003 (sp2) to get email from all my domains at once from the DROP directory on my server. (I can use rules in outlook 2003 to sort it then). Since I can’t send or receive any emails at all, I don’t know what to do.

GOAL: to be able to get all email in the c:/inetpub/ftproot/drop directory at once using outlook from multiple alias domains from my server.

Please help, my host wont.