Intel serial port header

I have an Intel DQ35JO that has a serial port header on it and I need to know what kind it is so I can purchase the right dongle for it. There are 2 kinds, AT-EVEREX and DTK. The description for the header is this:
pin 1 DCD pin 2 RXD#
pin 3 TXD# pin 4 DTR
pin 5 ground pin six DSR
pin 7 RTS pin 8 CS
pin 9 RI
I have been all over intel's site and all over the web but all i can find is where it shows
Pin 1 Pin 1
Pin 2 Pin 2
Pin 3 Pin 3
Pin 4 Pin 4
Pin 5 Pin 5
Pin 6 Pin 6
Pin 7 Pin 7
Pin 8 Pin 8
Pin 9 Pin 9


or


Pin 1 Pin 1
Pin 2 Pin 3
Pin 3 Pin 5
Pin 4 Pin 7
Pin 5 Pin 9
Pin 6 Pin 2
Pin 7 Pin 4
Pin 8 Pin 6
Pin 9 Pin 8


How do I know what one it is so I don't have to buy them 2x times?