I can do lots of things, I have never had any trouble learning stuff.....but not this

Im not going to ask anything in particular here, Im not complaining, jaja, Its just that im frustrated. After some time now of trying I cant get to fully understand how to get a site well position in search engines. It gets me angry to see other people have their website in the first places when they are not as informative or nice looking as the ones I do....(Im just being cocky)

So if Im not complaining, or asking any tip in particular what am I doing? well....I just want your opinion on how "hard" it is to position websites, just to get some hopes....or I dont know, maybe just make fun of me, whatever.....

umm, you should really try and be as specific as possible when asking questions, but anyways...
a start to getting decent search engine rankings goes well beyond submitting your site to the big ones...in fact, you don't even need to submit to them, they'll typically find you on their own.
- clear navigation thru your site
- relevent, keyword rich, fresh content
- optimized meta tags (optimize for keyword phrases etc.)
- obtain as many relevent backlinks as possible (the higher the pagerank the better).

you may wish to go beyond that with PPC campaigns etc., but i would do a lot of research on it before delving into that stuff.

hope that helps.