ColSel, rowSel, Sort

I cannot seem to get the flexgrid to highlight a row when selected. I know the problem is how I am coding it, but I can't figure out a solution. What I am currently doing is selecting a column to sort and then sorting it in ascending order. I can't seem to get it to not select a row until the row is clicked. it is selecting the first field in the column I am sorting. I do not want any rows selected until I click one. Any help with this problem would be appreciated.

Code I am using now

frmWatch.MSFlexGrid1.Col = 1 'Selecting column to be sorted
frmWatch.MSFlexGrid1.Sort = 5 ' Sorting in ascending order by date

Thanks